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Thursday, November 6, 2008

A Fell & Bloody Incident

Pic taken this morn, look at my bloodstains still on my tee & slightly 'cut' on my lower chin


~ Bloody Incident Last Night, 7.45pm ~

Just before my bedtime, I trying to act naughty again. Asking for 2nd round of milk & don't want to drink it when Mummy served it to me. Then Mummy keep singing songs , hoping I can sleep soon as I did not nap in the afternoon. However, the noti me keep wanting this & milk & yet dun want to drink.

Mummy getting angry as she yet to have her dinner, left our room & closed the door after her with no light on. Hoping I can again zzz to slumberland on my own. She went to kitchen to wash the bottles & then she heard bangings of the door.. crying & screaming fm me.

She then walked over & opened the door. To her horror, shocked to see my crying face, smeared with blood around my mouth area, & both hands smeared full with blood. Her heart struck in her mouth! She quickly bring me to wash off the blood stains & inspecting me. Her main FEAR is scared that I fell & broke my tooth again. I keep crying & refused to open my mouth to show her. When we returned to our bed, Mummy realised that there are a nos drops of blood splatter on the floor as well.

Then I cried for cuddle and after calming down, I dozed off to sleep & awoke till this morn 6.30am. Mummy quickly inspected me all over upon my waking! I got some slight reddish 'cut' on lower chin but should be recover back soon. My upper lip is slightly swelled & bruised. But I still able to drink my milk well & seems perfectly ok other than that.

Conclusion is that I may have fell fm our bed, bit my upper lip and caused bleeding. Thanks God for watching well over me.. nothing major mishap! I've been having too many 'incidents' lately, I must learn to be careful.

P/S: Mummy is so upset & putting a brave front to calm me down. After I tucked to bed & dozed off, she broke down & calling my Mama & Daddy to reach them and informed the incident. She feels like a lousy mommy for not taking good care of me !!! She really don't know how to prevent such things from happening again and again.


~ Hugs from Hayley ~

4 comments:

Jerral's Haven said...

mommy... thank god Hayley is ok except for some minor cuts.. try not to leave her alone in the room especially in dark areas anymore k.. she is still a baby.. there's what gunny always tells me.. i think of Jerral as a big boy but actually they are still tender n need lots of love n care.. little accident like this is unavoidable.. Jerral also has lots of little mishaps (especially with me around.. sigh)... just always keep her at a corner of your eye and keeps a look out for her always.. remember she is still a baby.. dun cry ok.. sayang...

Anonymous said...

dearie irene,
please do not blame yourself. there are times when both of you feel uptight about each other. sometimes i just leave kirsten in her room with the night light on, and she will cry herself to sleep. There was an incident she trieds to catch up with me on the stairs, and fell abt 8 step down. I blamed myself too... and thought that somehow she will learn to be more careful.
however, each parent is different and so is the child. Thank God for His care Hayley is well.
Please dont cry and feel bad. Hayley will forget and in fact learns for a better purpose. :)
You are a GREAT mommie like all others, oke.
hugs,
shef

Hello! My name is Hayley Tan said...

Hi San & Shef,
Tks for voicing out yur concerns .. I'm indeed grateful that nothing major happen to Hayley this time. Just a slight cut on her lower chin & I'm sure that will be gone soon. It is an indeed a scary incident esp when I'm facing it alone.

Not possible for me to watch over the lil active 'H' 24 hr a day esp I myself handling the lil active one. Will take extra care & precaution to prevent any further mishap. Will take note to leave a lil bed light for her whenever I leave the room.

Shef, tks for sharing the incident happened to lil Kristen. Luckily she is alright now. I can understand how sad & gulity you had felt at that point of time.

Sigh.. why is it so hard to be a Good mommy! Kudos to those stay at home mommies.

Mommy Irene

average Joan said...

irene, u r considered a good mommy..u know what happen last time... same thing... close the door, when kate cried too much, i rush in w/o checking and she was right behind the door! door slammed onto her face :P never dare to close the door with only her inside since then...