Bite Mark!

Hello!!
Sharing the bite mark that I've got bitten by my new classmate (girl) on last Tues.

When my mummy & Hebe fetched me from school bus in the evening, they are shocked to see such an ugly red mark caused by my new classmate / in my new transfer class.

Why new classmate(s) & new class??
Coz the week before this incident happened, I was kena pinched on right upper arm by this girl classmate, Megan, in my former class. There is a dark blue black bruises resulted from the pinch. My parents have brought this up to the principle and teacher in charge during the meet teacher session on 5 Dec. This is not the 1st incident that occured to me. I was also kena scratched by another girl's fingernails just about 2 months ago. Along the way since I've enrolled, I been scratched occassionally (once even by the care giver teacher who assisted to shower me, on my face). Some of the incidents & Mummy has already hightlighted to the teacher on such cases & most of the time, they just accept it as part of the growing as it is unavoidable when playing with other 'rough' kids in my class.

However, the bite mark is the last straw that my Mummy can take it! Teachers are saying that I was snatching toy from this girl, provoked her causing her to bite me. However, since there are 2 teachers who witness the whole incident. They should interfered & stop me from snatching the toy.. to prevent such ugly incident happened. Everytime, my parents hear the same thing from the teachers / principle and saying such cases is small matter.

Often, we wonder if the situation is reversed & if I'm the one who bit or pinched the others. Will the parents of the victim comes to us & cause a scene?? As of now, my parents yet to approach the parents of that classmate. My parents always taught me to be kind and nice to other kids. Must not involved in fighting with other kids. Yet this is what we got in return especially facing such mischievious kids. Though violent is not suggested here, I must learn to protect myself when facing to such kids.

My parents now looking for courses for me to learn the art of self defense as well for my well-being as form exercise.
If you are in my parents' shoes now, will you :
A) withdraw your child immediately from this school? OR
B) continue in this school ??

P/S: Edited post - agreed that violent is not the way to handle such situation.. and those kids are not really at fault. Parents and teachers should play an important role in disciplining the kids to avoid such situation.

~ Love from Hayley ~

A Fell & Bloody Incident

Pic taken this morn, look at my bloodstains still on my tee & slightly 'cut' on my lower chin

~ Bloody Incident Last Night, 7.45pm ~

Just before my bedtime, I trying to act naughty again. Asking for 2nd round of milk & don't want to drink it when Mummy served it to me. Then Mummy keep singing songs , hoping I can sleep soon as I did not nap in the afternoon. However, the noti me keep wanting this & milk & yet dun want to drink.

Mummy getting angry as she yet to have her dinner, left our room & closed the door after her with no light on. Hoping I can again zzz to slumberland on my own. She went to kitchen to wash the bottles & then she heard bangings of the door.. crying & screaming fm me.

She then walked over & opened the door. To her horror, shocked to see my crying face, smeared with blood around my mouth area, & both hands smeared full with blood. Her heart struck in her mouth! She quickly bring me to wash off the blood stains & inspecting me. Her main FEAR is scared that I fell & broke my tooth again. I keep crying & refused to open my mouth to show her. When we returned to our bed, Mummy realised that there are a nos drops of blood splatter on the floor as well.

Then I cried for cuddle and after calming down, I dozed off to sleep & awoke till this morn 6.30am. Mummy quickly inspected me all over upon my waking! I got some slight reddish 'cut' on lower chin but should be recover back soon. My upper lip is slightly swelled & bruised. But I still able to drink my milk well & seems perfectly ok other than that.

Conclusion is that I may have fell fm our bed, bit my upper lip and caused bleeding. Thanks God for watching well over me.. nothing major mishap! I've been having too many 'incidents' lately, I must learn to be careful.

P/S: Mummy is so upset & putting a brave front to calm me down. After I tucked to bed & dozed off, she broke down & calling my Mama & Daddy to reach them and informed the incident. She feels like a lousy mommy for not taking good care of me !!! She really don't know how to prevent such things from happening again and again.


~ Hugs from Hayley ~

Pics before the terrible incident & after

A Big Thank You for Everyone's concerns' & regards..

On Wed afternoon, my parents brought me to see a paediatric dentist, Dr Ja Intarasoot at Mount Elizabeth Hospital, to have a good examination on my wound and gums to ensure no infection being occurred. My former visit on last Sun was attended by my parents' regular clinic which does not specialise in young children. Moreover, I was crying a lot and unable to co-operate with the dentist for him to have a good examination. My visit to Dr Ja is more pleasant experience as the doc will talk & show me toys, to make me feel so much comfortable & open my mouth for her to check. Good news.. my wound has healed very well. But my adult tooth will only be grown in few years time, not so soon. We will be going back to see Dr Ja for a follow-up in 4 month time.

Moreover, my appetite has finally returned yesterday. I been back to my normal eating habits and in fact eating more, to recoup my loss of food during the 1st 3 days after the incident. Hence, this makes mummy feels relieved and much better enough to continue update my latest updates onto my blog. ^_^

On that fateful day, we've taken some pics before and after the incident.
Lets share with these pics below ..

**** Before the terrible incident happened ****

My happy look while waiting for train to arrive, to head towards Orchard station

I'm posing as a happy BK princess with the crown!
Lalalaaaa.. while my parents enjoying their BK breakfast & I finished a bottle of food jar

A close up of my happy look wearing my nice tee esp done by Godma San

Strike a Pose with mummy while we showed Daddy around in my school


**** After the terrible incident happened ****

Meeting my godparents & Jerral, to pass them the farewell gifts that we've esp prepared for them. It was raining heavily after my incident.. after catching up with them for a short while, my parents brought me to AMK dental clinic to check up.


My Godma San and happy Lil Jerral




My godparents and Jerral who are leaving for Australia the next day.
We going to miss them a lot.. hope they are settling well in Australia now.

Mummy and Godma with Jerral

Look at me I was in so much shocked that day.. keep sucking my thumb the entire day for comfort. My white tee even stained with my blood.

Trying to get Jerral to pose with me before their farewell..

~ Love from Brave Hayley ~

Terrible Shock | Lost my 1st Tooth

Yesterday, 17th Aug 2008 ..
It was meant to be a happy day as finally Daddy is free again to accompany us for my class at JG. We also arrange to have a farewell lunch for my godparents & Jerral afterwards...

We even managed to reach early like 10.20am, to have our BK breakfast before my class. Upon reaching my school, Mummy & I were happily showing the place and facilities to Daddy. Daddy supposed to take over the class during the 2nd half, Mandarin class. As we were ushered to my classroom at 11.30am, I immediately reached for a big cute toy truck to play. Mummy is watching me nearby to watch over me as I played, and briefing Daddy on the lesson that will be carry out in a short while. Little did we expect.. the FATEFUL incident is going to happpen on me soon.

After about 5 mins passed, I decided to push the toy truck away from Mummy, moving with my both hands & pushing it. I wandered to another corner... sort of tripped, my mouth knocked against the top of the truck. I was stunned.. and then GAVE A LOUD SCREAM AND CRYING ... my parents at first thought I will be alright as I tripped quite often too. The little bump seemed so light. The HORROR came & dawn on my parents' faces when Mummy picked me up & realised my gum is BLEEDING. The teacher Pix picked up my tooth (entirely in one pc) on the floor .. To our UTTER shock!!! I lost my uppper left tooth for the very 1st time in our life. Luckily, teacher Pix is quite calm to give me some graze & cold water to drink, handling the situation well.

Neverthless to say more, I was totally in pain and shock & crying non-stop. My parents quickly rush me to see a dentist to examine. Currently, I'm under close observation under the hawk eyes of my parents / Mama's. I can't afford to have any more incidents.. I must be very careful from now onwards. Though I need to be positive and stay cheerful despite my toothless smile which pained my parents' heart greatly over the loss of my tooth. The dentist told them my adult tooth will grow up latest by the age of 7-1/2 yr old. That is the worst scenario & indeed a long wait.

Mummy is worried that my future classmates will tease me when I'm in school the next time. My parents hope to see me growing well & remains as cheerful & happy despite of the terrible incident I've experienced & teasings that I may experience later on in life. My friends, pls do not tease me being toothless the next time we meet, pls.


~ Love from Brave Hayley ~